“It takes more intelligence to build a joke, tell a funny anecdote or narrate a gripping story than it takes to nitpick.” Of course I’ve been guilty of it myself, but Well, Actually is one of my biggest conversational pet peeves, especially online.
“It takes more intelligence to build a joke, tell a funny anecdote or narrate a gripping story than it takes to nitpick.” Of course I’ve been guilty of it myself, but Well, Actually is one of my biggest conversational pet peeves, especially online.
4 Comments
Bill Clark
That definitely sounds as bad as a poorly timed “Imma let you finish, but…”
syzygy
Urgh…that article hit uncomfortably close to home. And I’m not even a software developer! Time to add “well, actually” to my internal filter, along with stuff like “you know” and “basically”.
Meggin
‘Well, actually’ can also put a real dampener on innovation. The best ideas are born out of pushing the boundaries on what we know. ‘Well, actually’ can make it difficult to change, to see something in a different way, to be creative, to try something new.
Robert Bigelow
Yay! \o/ for making the list of the top ten female bloggers of the year. More so than anyone else on the list you actually *do* things that bring people and technology together. You *make* things that actually help people make their lives better. I do the large and bulk of my computing, development and Inter-networking via a Unix shell (ba$h) and *love* using todo.txt to help me keep track of appointments, information-literacy meetings and all manner of activities of a 21st century g33k. ^..^~